A Private Secret Wedding in Maidstone
Libby and Adam got married in a completely private ceremony at Oakwood House in Maidstone, choosing to keep their wedding a secret with only themselves and both sets of parents present.
Their story began three years ago when they met on Tinder, and what started as a modern love story turned into a quiet elopement-style wedding focused on intimacy, connection, and simplicity. Instead of a traditional large celebration, they chose a meaningful legal ceremony followed by a champagne moment together as a family.
A Quiet Ceremony with Just Close Family
The ceremony at Oakwood House was small, emotional, and completely focused on the moment. With only immediate family present, the atmosphere felt calm and personal, with no distractions or pressure of a larger wedding day format.
After the ceremony, the couple celebrated with a champagne spray outside the venue — a relaxed and joyful moment that reflected the excitement of keeping such a big secret and finally becoming married.
A content creator was also present throughout the day, capturing natural, documentary-style footage so the couple could preserve the moment without it feeling staged or overly formal.
An Upcoming Surprise Engagement Party Reveal
Although Libby and Adam are already legally married, they are planning to reveal their wedding this weekend at an engagement party. This will be their official announcement to friends and extended family, turning what looks like an engagement celebration into a surprise marriage reveal.
It’s a modern way of celebrating — keeping the intimacy of the wedding day, while still enjoying a bigger social celebration later on.
Things to Know About Weddings at Oakwood House Maidstone
Weddings at Oakwood House are well-organised but follow a structured registry-style format. Here are some helpful things to know if you’re planning your wedding here:
Ceremony Flow & Timing
- Couples are usually asked to wait in a designated room before their ceremony
- There may be multiple weddings running throughout the day
- It’s common to see other wedding parties arriving or leaving at the same time
Photography Notes
- The grand staircase inside the building is one of the most popular portrait locations
- Staircase photos are often requested immediately after the ceremony
- Outdoor spaces are ideal for group photos and relaxed couple portraits
Confetti Rules
- Confetti is usually only allowed in designated outdoor areas
- Some rooms (like garden-access rooms) may allow specific confetti locations
- Always check with the registrar team on the day for exact rules
Parking & Access
- Oakwood House has a large on-site car park, which is a big advantage for guests and suppliers
- Easy access makes it a smooth venue for arrivals and group movements
Photography Tips
- Because other weddings often overlap, it’s best to plan couple portraits either:
- immediately after the ceremony, or
- slightly later when outdoor areas are quieter
A Modern Intimate Wedding in Maidstone
Libby and Adam’s wedding shows that intimate celebrations can be just as meaningful as larger weddings. Their secret ceremony at Oakwood House was simple, emotional, and focused entirely on their closest family — a true reflection of modern elopement-style weddings in Kent.
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